CEREMONY
– 13 STEPS
To give you an idea of how a ceremony is created, here are the 13
steps: |
| Step |
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Description |
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| 1. |
Introduction |
Opening remarks to set
the mood. |
| 2. |
Welcome/Invocation |
Welcoming family and friends
and calling upon God, the Universe, or whatever outside, higher or
more radiant presence you choose to acknowledge, witness and bless
this sacred union. |
| 3. |
Opening Prayer |
A meaningful prayer or
poem that blesses the two of you. |
| 4. |
Reading |
This is where a poem or
verse can be read which has meaning for the two of you. If you have
a special family member or friend you can ask them to read it during
your ceremony, or I can incorporate it into the ceremony. |
| 5. |
Guest Blessing |
Recognizing those that
are present and encouraging them to focus their love and best wishes
this day towards the two of you. |
| 6. |
Address/Homily |
A short message by the
minister regarding marriage and the seasons of your love. |
| 7. |
Reading |
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| 8. |
Intentions/Vows |
This is when you share
the love you have for one another, any experiences or special moments
along with publicly declaring your intentions to each other. |
| 9. |
Blessing of the Rings |
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| 10. |
Ring Exchange |
Further expression of your
love for one another by stating your promises to each another. |
| 11. |
Final Blessing |
A concluding blessing or
prayer honoring your intentions for each other and well wishes for
a wonderful new life. |
| 12. |
Pronouncement of Marriage |
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| 13. |
The Kiss |
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